so scott tells me there alot of people at work giving him hell about being a father.
“oh your life is over” “its going to suck from now on”
just because their life fucking sucks doesn’t mean ours will. i personally WILL enjoy every moment of motherhood, and i know scott will be an awesome dad because hes a big kid himself (hehe he’ll have someone to play with)
it just makes me SO mad when i hear about people making those remarks. to make something SO wonderful, into the person experiencing the miracle feel like complete shit. i’m not going to regret being pregnant/married early. no matter how old i get. i love my husband and i love my baby. so many people go through life not having either. and not to be thankful and regretting that will be the last thing i will ever do.
we went through this when we got married too. fucking rude. i don’t care if its poking fun or joking. its straight up being an asshole. i would NEVER tell anyone that. i would support them with no matter what they want to do or are going into. especially if they were my friends.
its just like dawn, she got so much hell for wanting a natural birth. and i was the only one staying by her side telling her thats awesome of her, besides her mother of course.
there is joking and then there is just being a pain in the ass/hurting someones feelings.
DDD
